Dating A Romantic Energy Vampire
I have written before about the more harmless variety of energy
, and that
article describes the vampirism of a
person's precious time, energy and
sympathy. If I was to generalise the common
it is typically females who seek endless sympathy or a listening ear to
the everyday issues they face, in order to steal the energy off
another, leaving them feeling frustrated and drained of
all vitality. The Romantic
energy vampire is an entirely different kettle of fish and is much more
dangerous and difficult to dislodge. Please read this article if you
recognise you may be an unwitting victim of a romantic energy vampire.
I also call these types of people a Trap, or a romantic trap that as
women, we can be all too susceptible to - and I speak from experience
Who Are The Romantic Vampires?
Vampire is a term I have
coined after my own sad experiences
with these types of people. They are typically men and it will soon
become obvious why this is so. It is interesting that the more common
vampires are women whilst the romantic vampires are men. This reflects
the difference in the sexes when it comes to "feeding" off another's
energy. Women will typically do this exclusively through conversation
and attempting to elicit endless sympathy or aid, whilst men will
typically do this exclusively through the sexual relationship, which
will involve Power over their victim in a sexual context and in all
aspects of their life.
In both forms of vampirism, women
are the usual victims. Women pray on other women through false
friendships, and men pray on women sexually through false love. This
probably isn't surprising since the female gender is a giving and
nurturing gender. This giving
is quite simply being taken advantage of by both sexes through stealth,
and through victims unwittingly giving their "consent" to have their
drained. I say consent is given because the victim must allow
another to drain in order for
it to occur. This is the "back door" if you like, this consent that
predator vampire to gain entry into the life of a giving person.
The Signs Of Loving An Energy Vampire
At the beginning of a relationship, the signs are few and far between,
but importantly they are there. In my experience, these men are always
extremely charming and almost too good to be true. A woman will ask
why such a charming man is so interested, but she may not question it
for long because the vampire will overwhelm her with signs of love, and
be equipped to woe a woman powerfully. These men, in my experience, are
quite informed and adept at Sex Magic.
Sex magic is not normal sex and not a normal
sexual attraction - it is much more pronounced than this. If you have
had sex magic performed on you, you will know the difference. A master
at this will use certain (solar plexus chakra) energy on you to
attract, charm and subdue,
almost like a form of hypnotism. Remember that a man that truly loves
you will never hypnotise or sex magic you. You may call it dishonest,
or you may call it love, at first. Most romantic vampires are adept at
the dark art of sex magic, which is also used by satanic types and
those involved in ritual and other dark arts. This is also the TRAP
component of the romantic vampire, and it doesn't help at all if he is
good looking and powerful, and the female is lonely or vulnerable.
A warning: often these
vampires marry their victims.
I am speaking of a long range Plan of energy vampirism (pre-planned),
and being married to one of these men involves them having total power
over another and tying that person to them for life, if they can
The actual vampirism that goes on in such
relationships will be known
to most of us. The romantic vampire actually feeds off their victim by
causing pain and then enjoying the result of that pain. They suffer
from a kind of common delusion where they see the relationship as a
"competition" and by causing pain, they view themselves as the victors
and as "winning". This makes very little sense to the victim, and it
can take them long years to realise the pain caused to them has been a
show of power and a way to claim victory in the GAME. This is because
the woman has unwittingly fallen in love, and is searching for love
being returned. The vampire is deceptively playing another game
altogether, as we shall see.
How Does It Begin?
It begins normally enough, in fact the vampire
can seem extremely
loving, unusually sexy, very intelligent, but also separate. Vampires
will be emotionally or intellectually separate. They will see their
self as above their lady victim, above them in worldly power and as the
controller in the relationship. They will look down on their victim,
superior, and the victim has to ask herself at this point, why aren't I
an equal? Major warning sign! The victim may
even consent to this treatment. By accepting certain treatment
silently, we actually consent to it,
please never ever
do this. We
are all equal, and that vampire may just turn out to be beneath you and
someone you would rather leave behind!
A big weapon in the romantic vampire's arsenal is emotional turmoil
. They can literally spell a person into believing
are loved, whilst they daily torment them in seemingly small emotional
ways. This torment, whilst it seems trivial at first, will chip away at
the female's confidence. Vampires show two sides simultaneously - a
loving and seemingly
loyal side, and a wicked and cruel side that seems to just peek out at
first. They have so many tricks in their books that I could not list
all of them even if I tried. Causing guilt, shame, embarrassment,
feelings of inadequacy, the list is actually endless.
Each vampire has
tricks when it comes to causing emotional pain, suffering and keeping
their victims unbalanced, unable to catch their breath, and confused,
overwhelmed or stunned. They learn what the victim's triggers are, and
endlessly search for new emotional triggers to use, whilst overwhelming
their target with constant messages of pain. They can make the victim
feel like they are going insane, or imagining everything - this is a
quite deliberate and useful strategy. It would be useful to read the
novel "Fifty Shades Of Grey" to experience a character, Christian Grey,
who is adept at sex magic, hypnotism, sadism, and fooling an
inexperienced woman into believing this is love, all the while his
control is constant and never wavering. Unlike this romantic storybook,
bringing such a character back into the light is nearly impossible. You
must ask yourself if you intend to try this, is it really worth it?
When you meet someone who is capable of systematically destroying
another soul over the long term with mere words, you know that you are
dealing with a destructive master who has spent lifetimes reincarnating
and honing his skills at quietly and effortlessly destroying a loving
soul from the inside of their very defenses. And they feed off all of
this; don't forget they do it to feed and vampire off your energy and
pain for their own satisfaction.
When A Vampire Cannot Break You
Vampirism always escalates
over time, never diminishes! The hardcore vampire
always gets more and more hungry and is never sated. This is the nature
of darkness and power hunger, it grows, never lessens! Your pain is so
sweet to them, and you give it voluntarily, never realising you are the
victim in THEIR game. You are innocent and it never occurred to you
such a game could and does exist. It is time to get out.
Predictably, the romantic vampire gets angry when they are hungry for
the victim's sweet submission. If they cannot easily pain her, or feed
is convenient to them, they begin to see her as too strong, and they
determine to weaken her even further with violence, which simply
escalates to more violence until she is dead. If she tries to leave,
they will not let her go, and may seek the
harshest of revenge until they have WON. Remember, this game of power
is about who is the "victor"; in their minds this is their reality.
This explains the incomprehensible acts of violence in marriages and
relationships. What the victim has to eventually and painfully process
is that the love shown to them was a deceit, a carrot dangled, or a
lure to catch the fish. There was never any real love on the offing,
just the chance to snare a willing participant in the game of power.
Some men, who become enraged at losing their victim when she leaves,
will even murder his (and her) own children so as to win at any cost.
It is the
betrayal and evil we know of.
The reason this is becoming more common
could be because this type of mental illness is
not recognised in our world. These people are seen as sane, and not as
dangerous, delusional trap-setters that they really are. Some vampires
are devious enough to take out life insurance before doing the deed.
They will suck a woman dry of her self esteem and cause constant
emotional pain, then do the ultimate evil of ending her life.
They always finish what they have started, they will not let the female
escape or let her win. Vampires
are monsters, in fiction and in real life. The good news is that we can
see the signs and understand what drives their constant need to inflict
pain. Then we can cut them off, withdraw our consent, and then move on.
As women, we have the right to live our life without energy-sucking
parasites attaching to us and deceiving us that they mean well. We do
not deserve their punishment, revenge, anger or hatred. Let's be wary
of them and repel them at every chance. Do not be drained of your life
force, or your very life, because it conveniences someone else. Thank
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