How To Cut Cords Of Attachment
The reason why people cut cords with others is to generally
move on from a person and let them go energetically - this means on an
energy level. People who we are close to form energetic bonds with us
that resemble cords of energy that link one person to the other. These
are etheric cords, so think of ether
as a kind of
energy. Those who have seen
the cords (and often we can see them in meditation for example)
describe them as dark in colour. The bonding itself can be light
with just a slim cord, or you can be corded heavily with another
through your chakras and can have multiple thick cording that literally
shows your attachment, either mentally, emotionally, sexually, or all
course, when you care about another, the cording is not a
problem. The cords act as a way we send and receive psychic energy
between chakras, theirs and ours. The more energy we send, the bigger
the cords, and this is normal in any relationship. Communication
between chakras is how a lot of communication happens between people.
However, when we want to let someone go because we aren't
moving on, the cords and the continuing psychic/energy communication
between them and us can hold us back. Luckily there are easy ways
to remove the cords; no cord is meant to be forever. Whether cords
reform again is entirely up to us, but
when we are ready to let someone go, we probably won't go to the
reforming the psychic ties any longer.
Symptoms of heavy cording include:
- Unable to move on
- Unable to stop thinking or obsessing about a person
- Frequent conversations in your mind with a person
- Frequently remembering what they said in the past, feeling their
ongoing judgment or criticism
- Arguments, sometimes daily in your mind with someone (these can
actual psychic arguments)
- Constant memories or emotions that arise - i.e. we used to watch
- Temptation to go back to a relationship that does not serve you
- Stalking another online through social networking, watching them
- Unable to sleep, experiencing amnesia
- You seem to endless process the past and what happened there
- Deep feelings of sadness, anger, and depression around the past
- Feelings of wanting to get revenge, or constantly aware of unfair
- Crying a whole lot, an emotional wreck
- Turning down other offers and invitations,
- Becoming stuck in the past, not looking for new opportunities
What can you expect once the cords are cut?
In simple terms, you can expect to find your mind no longer dwells upon
the person as
the psychic attachment has been dissolved. Your mind is quieter, calmer
and it is like cleaning out a closet - all those old emotions
associated with that person dissolve as the communication between you
ends. You now have extra space in your mind to fill with something
better, and you will certainly be clearer in intent.
Imagine the freedom you can feel having that extra peace of
mind, letting go of unwanted baggage, not to mention being free
emotionally as well. If this sounds too good, you may be wondering why
don't we all do this on a regular basis, why don't people know about
this? The reason is simply we are never taught. In a world where we
tend to believe in only what we see, such psychic cords of attachment
go unnoticed and so we tend to carry unwanted energy and connections
around with us many more years than we need to.
When you do a cord cutting on the etheric cords
that bind you, the above listed symptoms lift. Some people charge money
to cut the cords for you, this is entirely unnecessary as it is only
you who can do this for yourself, not another.
With Whom Should We Cut Cords?
You can cut the cords with any person who is bothersome to you
psychically. This is to say anyone who sends you strong energy and who
intrudes on your thoughts and emotions even when you are alone. If you
are done with a person but find they always intrude on your thoughts
and you can feel them around you or in your mind, you can cut the
connection by cutting the etheric cords that attach the both of you.
Some people with strong sexual bonds can find
relief here as well by disconnection your sexual chakra to
theirs, if such a bond was once formed. If an old flame was harmful or
hurtful to you in
some way, being free on all levels is incomparable. You literally move
on and a new space is formed around you. You can then proceed to fill
that space with more amiable and pleasant thoughts and feelings.
You can also cut the cords with any person who has abused you, either
physically or emotionally. Victims of any crime (rape, beating, even
bullying) can form bonds with the perpetrators that continue on
energetically, even long after the crime. Cutting these bonds will help
healing that much faster. This will help you to release the pain and
clear out your energy field or aura of that trauma.
You can certainly continue to
cut the cords until they no longer recur and you have completely moved
on. If a cord cutting fails, this indicates you are not willing to
really let someone go yet. This is okay; it just means you aren't truly
ready to move on. There may be a lesson in this relationship you have
yet to master and your current attachment is giving you the opportunity
to learn the lesson for good.
We come now to the actual cord cutting. As this website is
all about Angels, they are the ones who can facilitate this process for
us. Ask, and you shall receive dear ones.
The Process of Cord Cutting
cutting is done in conjunction with our loving Angels and Spirit
Guides, who surgically remove the etheric cords that bind, cutting them
completely from our auric field. Whilst it is our angels who do the
work for us of cutting and removing, our job is to ASK
them to do so.
We can't just assume our angels 'know' we want our cords cut. Angels
cannot intervene unless we invite them to do so, therefore we must
or invoke our angels and guides into
action. Fortunately this is very easy to do and takes no time at all.
Simply say the following words or a version of them with intent.
I ask my angels and spirit
to help me in this task. I wish to free myself for all eternity from
___(name)___ so that
both of us may go free from ties that bind and all energy attachments
past. It is time to move past the experiences we have shared. I am
what I have learned and lessons given, but this attachment is no longer
and is holding me back and affecting my 'now'.
With power I now ask for all
cords to be cut, for all energetic cords physically connecting the two
of us to be
removed, dissolved, transmuted and cut free, and all energy to be
returned to the
It is my intention that no more
energy attachments hook onto me from ___(name)___. With
forgiveness and peace I release them to move away from me and move on
do the same.
I now call upon Archangel
Michael (or Sananda, Saint Germaine, Kwan Yin, Mother Mary)
to surround me and cut away the cords and
protection. I ask that this be complete and sealed NOW. Please
cleanse my aura of negative energy and emotions, and seal it with love.
Spend a few minutes
after repeating these words just quietly sitting
and breathing calmly whilst your angels work on your energy to remove
the etheric cords and hooks. You may notice a shift in your energy at
once or you may not, it does not matter. Know that any sensations or
warmth you feel during this process is completely safe, please
surrender to it and
faith, for this is being performed for you now. You might want to offer
up any other prayers or invitations to the angels for help in your life.
A good time to use this
invocation is just before going to sleep. You
can use it as often as you wish, on as many people also that you wish
to release from you. It will begin to work immediately as long as you
do not reform an attachment to them again. You might ask: Why do the
angels want to do this for me. Answer: Because they love you and that
I hope this works for you, this
is a loving gift from your angels.
Blessings on your journey.If you wish to read about
Energy Vampires and why you should cut cords
with them, read my article Do
You Know An Energy Vampire?
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