Twin Flame Myths & Relationship
It is almost impossible to meet your
eternal Twin Flame without realising who they are pretty quickly. This
intense kind of relationship is well known for the speed in which both
twins recognise who the other is.
This being said, what is the
best way to play your relationship, given that you might want a
gameplan or a way to explore it keeping in mind all of the
characteristics that mark these particular relationship. What you may
know if you've read anything about your twin is you don't want to be a
loose-cannon and mess this relationship up if you can help it. You will
at least want to remain good friends on speaking terms for your flame.
Myth 1: We All Meet Our Twin
The twin flame relationship is so strong from the start because of
of your soul - in that you are both one side of the same Soul on a
higher level. Many people never get to meet their true flame whilst in
incarnation on earth, as one twin in the pair usually acts as a guide
from the other side. However, some people who are drawing close to the
their karmic incarnations do get the chance to experience
their own 'other' self in the flesh, and it's a strong connection.
It is as though your hearts are already strongly bonded in mutual love.
Not everyone can meet their flame, but if you do you know that you are
Myth 2: Twin Flame Friendships Are Easy
A twin flame relationship, whilst familiar in many ways, is one that
brings in new energy and new experience like you won't believe. Many of
these relationships are characterised by partners who have very
different life experience, ages or even cultures. This person will
fascinate you with their different views and radical ways of living.
Or, if you are already
radical, they will be calm and predictable. While your minds meet in
amazing ways, other experiences can throw you right off. It may be hard
to stay friends, let alone lovers spending all their time together. No
one ever said that the twin flame experience was easy, and there are
certainly many challenges specific to each couple that tend to be more
difficult due to the intensity of the relationship. It may not be a walk in the park but it will be intense and interesting.
Myth 3: Your Flame Will Understand You
Our twin flames definitely change us, and one flame will probably
than the other. By the time you meet them, you are usually ready to
start over a new leaf and we already know that all meet-ups have a reason.
It may take a few weeks before you recognise each
other so deeply, but they will catch your eye. You
will look and you will approve, and perhaps then you will start talking.
It is a fallacy to suppose that twins are not stubborn. In fact, it is
almost certain you will disagree about a great many subjects simply
because you are so different. One myth is to believe they are like all
others we befriend - but this is far from true. Imagine anyone in
society you would normally pass by without thought; the one who is poor
or impoverished, or is it the rich one with airs or a totally different
way of looking at the world. Is it an unusual looking foreigner, or a
sickly person you normally wouldn't notice? Or someone so fit and
whilst we struggle with weight issues? Twins are unusual because they
are meant to be. Although you share one soul, you will be quite
different. Your soul wouldn't waste time having
two similar lives, would it? Indeed not. So while it is a pleasant idea
to have instant understanding with this person, this is another myth
that often never eventuates.
Myth 4: Neither Of You Needs To Change
Who needs to do the most change? Perhaps it is both of you. Change will
need to occur if you are to really get along together. Both will
probably need to grow, but you will both resist the growth because who
likes moving out of their comfort zone?
will change from your most basic
or outlook on life, yet knowing each other will make you think hard.
Many questions can be raised such as have they wasted their life,
lived it too
fast, or not been careful of others? Do they treat people correctly,
think of others and try to be their best loving soul? You're going to
have to grow fast
to hang out with them, and also learn not to judge. Our twins almost
always represent something that we judge already in our set views. It
won't matter who you are or how loving you think you are, twins change
all of that and we find we need to take a new, less judgmental view of
Myth 5: You Are Both At The Same Level
We often expect with our relationships that we are dating someone at
our own level of experience, yet often we're dating people who have no
idea of even simple things we may know. Unfortunately (and I can't
change this) this is true of our twins as well. Your guy or girl could
be a cheater, a scoundrel, a criminal, and who says they will simply
"change" magically when they meet us? Some twins have no plans to change at all. They may be an accomplished liar
and have no idea what to do with us when they meet us. It could be the
most beautiful thing to them, but who says THEY won't mess it up?
Who says they play fair? This myth actually brings us right into the
next and last myth...
Myth 6: You Are Meant To Be Forever
So you have gotten through the first few months of knowing your twin,
when many other flame relationships have already died out due to
frustration or sheer misunderstanding. What do you do now? You're now
ready to make your relationship a lot stronger. Despite what many people
think, not all twin flames are MEANT to make it in a relationship.
Often we are meant for others and our twin is meant as a friend, even
if you do find them totally attractive or divine. You need to keep your
head during this
time to work out which of these is truly meant for you - friendship,
relationship, or nothing. Who knows, maybe parting ways is how it is supposed
For the few, if it's a relationship that is on the cards then you are
free to take the fast track to learning all about each other and moving
forward together. This is the toughest myth however because
people always assume they're meant to have a happily ever after, especially
if they are twins. But it
is not guaranteed that this is even your higher plan, which can come as
shock. We often have a lot of karma with our twin, involving issues
that are impossible to solve all in one go. Or they are already
married, or live far from you. Life serves us up some difficult
dilemmas and not everything works like in the movies, all tied up with
The best thing we can do is appreciate our twin and thank whatever
power for meeting them. Aren't you glad to have had that experience,
and to cherish those memories? Even if your twin is someone you must
sadly get over, there are still plentiful numbers of soul mates out
there who will, if you're sensible, suit you better anyway. Life is a
mish-mash of experience and we have to learn to make the best of
things. Forgive your twin flame if they did disappoint you and
eventually you can find the right person for you.
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