The Twin Flame Love Reunion
As humans we intrinsically yearn for
that rare love, twin flame relationship
with another who
understands and somehow completes us on the deepest spiritual level;
cherishes us always.
The reason we yearn for this is because
created our spirit out of His spirit, he separated each of us into a
and a female counterpart. Although cleaved in two, twin flames are
never truly separate from each other and are still one, like two sides
of the same coin. This
resulted in our one perfect partner in spirit, our exact mirror twin
flame, who is made as we are, of the same Presence.
twin flame some years ago and as is typical of most reunions we parted
again. This article will describe most of the common signs and stages
in a typical twin flame reunion.
What Is A Twin Flame?
Our twin flame
is our closest soul mate. We have other mates that are
aspects of our soul, part of our soul family who are very much like
us. Yet soul mates are never exact mirrors the way our twin is. The
twin flame is truly our cosmic partner in spirit, who
sometimes incarnates with us so that we can meet them in a physical
body. Once a rare event, it is more common now due to humanity raising
There are multiple other aspects (soul mates) that arise from
our soul, yet our twin flame is the closest to us and
mirrors our exact soul characteristics and traits. They think as we
think and feel as we feel. We tend to go through life feeling we are
the "only one" or are unique. Being with a
twin flame is meeting that other aspect of self, one that reacts to
events the same
way we do; and that can be disconcerting!
I had issues when my twin
possessed my own uniqueness, he was the same as me. He would
everything exactly as I was about to say it to a group, only he would
beat me to
it. He would literally steal my conversation and that was something I
didn't really enjoy. Yet what is guaranteed with our twin souls is
strong attraction and a deep spiritual
connection, so there are plus sides to this
relationship after some big adjustments regarding how we see ourself.
How To Recognise A Twin Flame
this recognition is
instant and at other times it takes a little bit of time. Once twins
catch each other's attention, the bond can be overpowering, even if
are the last person we ever believed was suitable.
Twins can have
large differences in age and upbringing, or be from completely
walks of life (both true for me). This can be disconcerting and, I
won't lie, it can make things very rough going.
Despite some big differences, there is a powerful recognition that can
both twins surprised and puzzled. You will notice this as you gaze into
each other's eyes - the contact is powerful yet familiar.
When my twin first noticed
me it was electric and took us both by surprise. It is often so with
twin flames. If there is any
doubt about them being the one flame for us, then they probably are
not. We know our flame as soon as we meet them properly; there can be
no denying it.
connection is undeniable and deeply spiritual, but can also be
intoxicating. There can be elements of infatuation, but also very deep
elements that are undeniable. Our spiritual twin seems beyond familiar
as we get to know them, perhaps too familiar, yet we are
always hooked by them nonetheless. For me it was like being with
myself, which lent me the feeling it was not supposed to last; it was a
There are downsides to the intense attraction / attachment that is
experienced because the thought of losing them can feel like death.
Because we are very close to our twins in spirit, we get very close
fast in the physical dimension. We
have very strong emotional feelings about our spiritual counterpart and
do can make that simply go away. Once we know this person, we become
attached. Their soul is our soul, their blood our blood. Any time we
allow ourself to go too high, we open the possibility of falling to an
Mirroring & Difficulties
Believe it or not, these relationships are not supposed to be
easy. We find our mate testing us on many levels and this
relationship is not an easy ride by any stretch.
We may well be
in different stages of life, one person young and inexperienced whilst
other seasoned, divorced, with children or possessing a much different
life. Our twins enter into our lives in order to stretch us and help us
grow. Whilst this can be true of many romantic relationships, it can be
especially true of soul mates and twin souls. Heartbreak is possible,
well as separation.
Although it may be a short lived relationship, it will be one that
takes a while to forget. My twin meeting was over twenty years ago, and
whilst I have forgotten it now, I have met another
who is so similar to my twin, astrologically and temperamentally, who
possesses the exact same emotional problems. This second relationship
cannot hurt me because my twin already hurt me in just the same ways.
There is a lot of idealistic information circulating on
the net somewhat falsely claiming that twin soul relationships are
perfect, with no ego, no
arguing, no separation. But our twin counterpart is not a fairytale
figure, they are human and have faults and issues.
Although we can become improved by the twin relationship, separation
is common and so are arguments.
Imagine meeting the one person who can
push your buttons precisely. Twins tend to mirror each other so
perfectly that if we possess a fault that we dislike, we see the same
fault in our twin and all hell can break lose. Twins are as mirrors to
each other and will bring up issues of self judgment or self loathing
that can then be transfered onto the twin mirror.
Sometimes a twin flame has led a selfish
life or has mental issues that border on the dangerous. Not all issues
vanish simply through the reunion of two flames. Some twins are
promiscuous drunks, who crave freedom and don't wish for a
relationship. Some are already married and in love. A twin could be a
nerd, our total opposite, or a social butterfly extrovert who
parties endlessly. We may have nothing in common with them; they
could be poor or rich, a bum who never showers, or a well-healed snob.
they will be very different to what we would normally expect or look
for in a partner. They could also come from a different geographical
location, culture or
religion, or from a completely different upbringing to ourself.
How To Find Our Twin Flame
They usually have a way of finding us. What I mean by this is that
they will simply appear when we least expect it. Our angels and guides
set up the meeting and then sit back to watch the fireworks
explode. The angels tell me that it is not possible to cause the
meeting to occur, but we should have faith and hold a positive mental
and get on with life.
Twin flame meetings usually occur when one
counterpart is going through a life crisis. This
dramatic, once in a lifetime crisis occurs first then the twin appears
suddenly. They come in to help, although it may not always unfold this
way depending on the twin.
I wonder if they are called "flame"
because of their propensity to burn us? They do not mean to of course,
it is just that the chemistry is so intense. My feeling is we must not
judge the experience. Not all reunions are romantic in nature,
especially if the age difference is very large.
Telepathy - Knowing What The Other Is Thinking/Doing/Feeling
is a given with our twin flame, it is a well known phenomenon which
also happens with true soul mates who are part of our soul family.
Their uncanny ability to see into each other is what can scare away any
soul mate we meet in the flesh, because this dynamic is rare and one we
don't often have when interacting with other souls. The natural
telepathy and familiarity can shock us to the core.
I had a strange experience when I met two soul mates as well
as my twin all at once. The others are male and I am female. One part
of my soul family was very down
and out and was a drunk, although I simply could not judge him as
easily as I
might another - there is much compassion within soul families. Another
was a young, handsome man my own age (both very young at the time) who
already had several children with different girls. Then there
was my twin, who was significantly older and
a complete mess. The younger soul mate and I got along amazingly well
as friends and could have been close friends if not for his fear. He
would push me away then get close again. He was too young to understand
the meaning of platonic friendship, like he was afraid a friendship was
This soul mate also became amazing
friends instantly with my twin, and followed him around like a puppy.
There is telepathy between all soul mates. They can see right into us
as no one else ever can. Mine ran from me and I regretted the lost
potential of friendship. My twin flame
also ran (more on the "runner" phenomenon in the next section).
is the very closeness we crave that causes us or them
to run in shock and fright. We need to adjust quickly when we first
realise this other person can see into our very heart
and mind; it is eerie at first. We cannot
hide even the deepest secrets about ourself because telepathically and
clair-cognizantly, they know All. They notice that we also know
all. The immature or emotionally closed ones almost always run. The
meeting of four members of my soul family was divinely organised for
us, but it all
fell apart because people got scared of the closeness. The telepathy
and empathy is such that we know each other well after no time, and can
feel what the other feels, even at a distance. Actual telepathic
conversations can occur between twins, and some twins will sync
themselves so that their moods match, or even their activities.
Twin Flame Stages / Phases
There are several well known stages to the twin flame relationship. I
found that these phases are almost exactly like what I went
There is a preparation stage before
meet, where one if not both have a strong feeling or longing for
someone to enter their life. This preparation comes from soul level so
that both are prepped and ready for the meeting.
2. The Meeting
The first meeting between twins usually occurs in the last place you
would ever imagine.
phase is described as the initial blissful, perfect relationship. This
happens for some but not all of us. In my case we skipped straight to
stage three after a few weeks because my twin was recently divorced and
bitter, and I "turned him down". He became what is known
as "the runner" almost from the start. I could not be forgiven for the
misunderstanding that occurred, and he ran from the other half of
3. Disagreements and Fights
Three is the inevitable
that seems to occur in
these relationships. It may be karma, it may be that age and cultural
differences are just insurmountable, or it could be a horrible
misunderstanding, or perhaps one twin simply likes to argue. As well,
this phase commonly manifests as a cold, unbreakable silence consisting
ignoring the other steadfastly, for months or even years. Though it
seems strange that two parts of the same soul can't get along,
this is indeed what occurs with the typical twin flame relationship.
At this point, one twin becomes the "chaser"
the other one the
This position will most likely swap completely at some point
when the former runner begins chasing, and the former chaser starts
to run. The initial chaser is almost always the feminine counterpart.
In my instance, I was the
chaser for three years and kept bumping into my twin
on the street. Each time he would duck away and literally run. As time
passed and I moved on, he then
became the chaser. For the next three years I continued to bump into
this man, and although he made advances, I went to
extraordinary lengths to run from him. In my heart I wanted to reunite,
but the damage had been done and to this day I would still run.
4. The Reunion
The reunion between twins is supposed to happen when their karma is
balanced and both
have forgiven the other. Any kind of reunion needs to conform to a
freewill decision to revive
something long dead, or perhaps only sleeping. After researching
people's experiences online, I have some evidence of couples
who have experienced phase 4 & 5. Yet most stories I have read
have ended with separation after a short period of being together. Even
in the case of Doreen Virtue and her published book about her twin
flame relationship, they later separated and are no longer together. In
my own heart I know I will not be reaching phase four in this life. The
fact is that most twin flames move on and eventually end
up with other partners, although there are always exceptions. My
angels hint to me that this phase takes place after we pass over from
this life, and we make good again with our twin.
Phase Five is
I am not sure bliss can so
be experienced on the Earth plane, but maybe it can if that is what one
wanted badly enough and was able to achieve with their twin. As
the Earth continues to ascend, it will probably become much more
possible. Most twin flame stories I have read describe the way one or
both twins, during one of the above stages, moves on enough to only
want to be "friends" (this is my experience too). Yet stage 5 can
happen according to a smaller percentage of stories I have read. For
some of us, stage five bliss with our twin happens after passing into
the higher dimensions
after this life is over.
The Purpose Of Twin Flame Relationships
Channeled material tells us there is a divine purpose to
our linkups with our flame, a
purpose that is relevant to this era and world as we prepare to
ascend spiritually. Twin flame partnerships exemplify
unconditional love and set up a template for the world. They are
an example of true love to aid in humanities Ascension. If this is so,
then many of us may have completed the task and simply moved on again,
and maybe this is how it is meant to be.
To read further on this topic, refer to articles The Twin Flame Runner
and Twin Flame
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