Twin Flame Depression, Pain Or Sadness
Are you feeling blue because you are in the Separation Stage
twin flame reunion? You are not alone. Most of these special reunions,
including my own, hit us hard and can bring us to our knees. What we do
know is that when twin flames separate, there
are compelling spiritual reasons for it. It
is never a failure,
it is a Phase
of the relationship,
although it IS painful. If nothing else, we must
always remember that the separation part is temporary and (I agree with
many who say this) it is needed and is a part of the ultimate reunion
that is coming. What I do know is that time has an
amazing way to heal us, and allow us to see a bigger picture. It is
never the end
You see, twin flames do eventually reunite because, forgetting the
earthly situations we find ourselves in, twins have an Eternal love
union as exact soul mirrors of each other. Twins literally can't break
up in the greater scheme of things. We are stuck with them and them
with us. They are our bliss, and always will be. Our hearts cannot be
torn asunder. Yes there are separations, as part of our planned
journey, but a reunion once begun, will complete itself at some point,
we can be sure of it.
Feeling Blue Or Sad Over A Break Up - Take Hope
Knowledge of the reasons for separation can help lessen the
common depression, pain and sadness that results from such separations.
We all go through this at some stage, often for quite a period before
we can gain some distance and healing. There is a purpose behind it and
eventually we exit this separation cycle once and for all.
survive separation with our twin flame and learn to handle the
situation, even if we cry a lot
or need counseling. How long it lasts depends on many factors such as
karma, lessons and how quickly we can let go
of ego, blame and judgment. It is a period of self learning, but the
reward for all of this pain is worth it.
Will My Soul Flame Return To Me?
The answer is yes, either sooner or later, but we cannot determine the
timing. There appears to be an element of divine timing
when it comes to twin
flames. We certainly reunite when we have left this earthly plane (and
truly we never separate from them), but whilst on earth, we can have
different life paths and can only appear to each other for a limited
time together until we need to go our own ways again.
We learn more when we are around other souls, for our own soul is
intimately close and familiar to us. This is why it is heaven. Yet it
may not be our earthly assignment to stay with our twin; of course it
depends. They may have karma elsewhere with others which they must
complete in this lifetime.
|"Once both twins
have completed all romantic karma with others, they are ready to come
together for good, be it in this lifetime or in the afterlife."
Moving Out Of Depression
How can we more quickly leave the depression stage? If you are anything
like me, I was obsessed with my twin because to me he was the ultimate
man, even with all his faults. He had the qualities that I wanted in
myself. Rather than work on my own growth and evolution, I wanted to
get it the easy way, by being with him. Depression is a result of
attachment, so how do we detach from the thing we want most in the
It isn't easy, and unfortunately there isn't a magic pill for this
depression. Some medications might help us to avoid depression, but to
truly get through it, we must travel through all the feelings and
stages and feel it. We have to know the emotions, we have to know the
pain, before we can release it. My separation with my twin brought up
existing issues - abandonment issues. I wasn't so much working through
him being gone, but other issues from my past that the separation
triggered within me. It was heavy going. He simply did to me what
others had done, and I hit an all time low that was perfectly dreadful.
We work through depression by looking at our issues, and slowly, over
time, finding a way to heal those issues. We feel pain, but we have to
work out why. Strangely it can take time to release the pain; with
twins it is a terrible pain like no other, and it takes time. We have
to be very gentle with ourself. Be kind to yourself. Love yourself. Ask
your angels to send you healing.
Blaming Our Twin For Our Pain
Many people say it is wrong to blame our twin. At some point we have to
own our pain as our own creation. Whilst all this is true, few can
truly do this when the pain is new and raw. There will probably be
blame, no matter how we intellectually try not to place blame. This too
fades as time goes by. We grow and mature, and we learn from our twin
flame interlude. In a way, it is true that we have to separate before
we can unite for good. We must be strong enough to stand alone, and
balanced enough to forgive both them and ourself. We have to heal and
be complete before we can ascend with our twin.
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