11 Ways To Attract A Soul Mate
There are certain conditions that must
be met before we manifest a stable and loving Soul Mate relationship.
Perhaps most importantly, we must learn how to be secure and happy all
Some people might be gasping at this because they
long for a soul mate to 'complete' them in some way. Some of us spend
our entire life looking for completeness from another, not realising
that we need to find it in ourself first.
The list below reminds us what steps to take to be complete in ourself
we attract this magical person into our life. Whenever we
look for a partner to make us feel stronger, more loved or more
successful, we still have more work to do on Us
. When we are
ready and feel whole, we can finally meet that person who is also
complete by themself,
and we form a wonderful, mature relationship of two equals who
are already happy and no longer searching.
1. Become A Whole Person
This is the most important condition, and the following points describe
how to do this. Make a list of the feelings you want to get out of
finding your perfect partner. Do you want to feel more secure, more
successful or more popular? Do you want him to add something you are
missing into your life? The qualities you wish to find in a partner
as the ones you need to be working on right now for yourself. Once you
are more complete in yourself, you will attract the right soulmate for
Some of us may not be interested yet in being a complete person,
believing that we can find certain attitudes in others, however often
we end up with people in a karmic relationship (which includes
frequent arguments or fighting). This gives us another chance to figure
to find certain attributes in ourself rather than in others. For a
calmer, loving and non-karmic relationship with a soul mate, we still
have to wait a bit longer.
2. Healing Past Relationship Hurts
If you carry wounding from a past relationship, you may have some
homework to finish off here, for we need to heal up
past hurts from other relationships that
failed in the past. Is there a memory that hurts to think of from a
lover? It might be time to go within to look at certain issues that
were painful and to discern, without placing blame, who caused the
issue and who was at fault.
When we do not heal old issues, they have a
tendency to come up again in new relationships. They do this so we can
positively learn a lesson and then move ahead. Perhaps you wanted to
avoid a painful issue by forgetting about it. The best way is to face
it front on in your memory and work out why it was painful, how it
could be solved, etc. Once the issue is solved within, you will feel
calm over it and will have learned a very good lesson.
3. Forgive & Love Yourself
You have to love you
anyone else can, so learn how to forgive
things about you that may have been difficult in the past. Some of us
our appearance, for example weight issues, and some of us judge past
deeds or personality traits. Right down a few issues you have with
and figure out positive ways to forgive them. You can even use
help get there, like: "I forgive the weight I carry and I love
myself completely." Really work on loving ALL of you. Then when you
Mr Right and he is loving you, you will be that much easier with it.
4. Live A Full Life!
You want to live the right life for you, including all the activities
love to do, so its no good just sitting around putting off a great life
waiting for your soul mate to come
along. Life is so full of activities and interests so there must be
several things you would love to do. Its important to keep seeing
friends and getting out there. You can also take quiet time to balance
this activity or full living. You want to achieve a balanced life and
simply keep believing
that you can have someone, the one you want.
5. Belief Is Important
Strangely, you need to believe
that such a happy life is
possible and that such a wonderful man exists. Do you have blockages in
belief or think it may be selfish to want what you do? Perhaps you feel
you aren't good enough, or doubt that such a man that you need actually
would want you. There are all kinds of doubts that can block the basic
that you deserve this and you can manifest it. Once you can break these
blocks then a new life
is waiting for you.
6. Releasing Expectations
We may have expectations about the kind of person we are looking for,
and when these expectations are too rigid it can block the right
person from appearing. For example, perhaps you want a skinny blond
woman with no children, but what if your ideal soul mate has brown hair
kids? She may be exactly what you need in your life, yet if you are
hung up on blonds you may turn her down. The better expectations to
have are about traits, like expecting an honest person who is confident
You are more likely to meet the right person this way.
7. Let Go Completely Of Old Lovers
Sometimes we may be trying to move forward but sabotage ourself by
thinking or spending time with old lovers, those who we know are not
our future. This activity is fine but know that whilst we are with an
old lover, and constantly thinking about the past, we tend to put the
future off until we move on. If you are caught up in such a
relationship, why not let it finish naturally first before attempting
to attract a new soul mate? You will want to end things naturally and
then completely cut the romantic cords. Once all past romantic cords
are fully cut, the universe is free to manifest new blood for you.
Similarly, if you still dream of someone from the past who is no longer
in your life, this acts as old energy that needs to be cleared out. We
sometimes cling to such dreams out of comfort. Once you are ready you
will let such dreams go and that is when you can expect new energy to
enter your life. Every relationship has a season - don't rush to
kick people out but wait until you are truly ready to move on to your
8. Send the Message Out There
Before we meet our soul mate, often we come to a point where were are
sending energy into the universe to make it manifest. Its a
natural state that comes to us when we begin to imagine someone living
with us, and we imagine what it would be like. This is a powerful
that contains no doubts. When you are ready, you will naturally do this.
9. Let It Go
Put your focus elsewhere whilst you are looking. If all we think about
is a new partner, we can actually send out "desperate" energy that
the universe that we aren't ready. At some point, we need to believe
that the right person will come and, without worry, think about other
things. This is the healthy way to attract someone and we won't feel as
10. Clean Out The Clutter From Your Home
It's a good idea to make room in your life for a new person before
they arrive. I don't mean clear a shelf for them or empty out your
draws - going that far isn't necessary. I mean generally de-clutter
your house so
this person will feel more at ease.
If you have a very messy or cluttered
house, with objects strewn all over and cupboards overflowing, the
universe may feel you have so much going on and decide you aren't
ready. Spend one or more weekends going through your possessions and
throwing old things out or sending them to the opp shop. You can do
this one room at
a time. This will in effect organise your entire life and you
will mentally feel a lot clearer after this is done.
11. Be Genuinely Happy
It's true what they say; it's when we no longer care desperately and we
stop looking for
someone perfect that they tend to come along. They often
surprise us by arriving and, if this is the case, we are very ready to
meet the new soul
mate. When you are already fulfilled in life, feeling happy and wrapped
up in the busyness that
is your life, that is often when they
I hope this article has been helpful by giving the
best ways to attract a true soul mate.
Now you can read further with the 15 Signs Of A Soulmate
to determine if your new partner is a soul mate.
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