Karmic Relationships - The Signs
Many of our relationships are karmic
in some fashion - but even with intense attraction, the karmic side of it can prove too much. So how do we make it work?
people are starting to complete their karma, making their relationships
a lot more mature and pleasant. Even so, we always seem to have one or
two relationships that can be a bit iffy,
a bit karmic. So how can we tell which relationships fall into this
category? Don't worry! We can work off our karma to raise
ourselves to a lighter state of being.
9 Signs Of A Karmic Relationship
1. Amazing Start But Problems Arise
you love it when you meet a new person and you
find out that the attraction is reciprocated and they want to spend
time with you? You start to fall in love and hope they are the One.
They may well be very charming in the beginning, and do and
say everything right. They seem somehow familiar like you have met them
before and they seem to accept who you are.
But as time goes on, strange things begin to happen, perhaps the
communication breaks down, and you have a strange situation where you
are in a relationship but you aren't treating each other very well
anymore. Or perhaps you are treating them well but you have become
invisible, uninteresting, or perhaps only needed sometimes when they
want something. There can be any number of patterns we begin to see
starting up pretty fast. These tend to appear within weeks
in a karmic
relationship, rather than over years for other people. You are
continuing on with a story from the past with this person. You may not
realise it, but this is karma showing itself in order for us to correct
2. You Fight Often.
This is another
main indicator because fighting, or disagreement, always indicate some
kind of karma. What are your issues? Did they spring up immediately - a
sure sign of karma? Is it getting in the way of everything else and
driving you crazy? You will need to find a way to fix these issues and
if you can't, you may need to leave this relationship behind until your
next lifetime to sort out.
3. Strong Sexual Attraction
a lot of make-up sex. It is the sex that usually keeps karmic
relationships together, because actual love is not yet showing itself
in the picture. We call it love,and we talk about how much we love
them, but really its the sex that keeps us going. We can have endless
fights, sometimes for years, and then we have the makeup sex. It is
wonderful, we reunite and we agree, until the next time we begin to
fight again. We keep going until we can heal it, or, we move on again
if it gets too much.
4. Abusive Patterns.
these types of relationships can be physical or abusive. Not all karmic
relationships involve violence, but they all involve emotional abuse
that can be either subtle or very obvious.
Subtle abuse is no less
damaging and we need to name what is going on if we want to heal it.
Can we talk about it with our partners? Often it is something that we
can't bring up because they don't want it to end. Some people like
these kinds of relationships and they are looking
for ways to abuse - they enjoy it. These are the relationships we need
to escape from, no matter how much we feel we need them.
5. They Are Controlling You.
This relationship is not an equal one. Some people tend to be
controlled no matter who they are with, so they are dealing with this
issue and this karma. They need to come to a realisation that this
behaviour is not healthy.
Do you let
others walk all over you and never do anything about it? These kinds of
lessons that karma teaches us are very difficult to break, but sooner
or later we have to. Don't you deserve better, something more healthy
and loving. Once you learn that you don't have to be controlled, you
will move out of the relationship and try to find another that works -
never easy but must be done.
6. Lots Of Game Playing.
games, don't we all love them? Maybe not. Sometimes a partner tries to
control but fails; perhaps you simply can't be controlled. So he or she
will resort to more subtle ways to take you over. Perhaps they want a
partner who stays home and doesn't work. Or they are threatened
friends, wanting you not to have any. How tiring. A karmic partner, or
indeed any partner, may wish to destroy you, your career or anything
else that you love. This is karmic even if you only knew them in this
life - it becomes
is something to be avoided. This is not a loving situation.
This goes with
the strong sexual interest you have in them; it is all part of the same
thing. You will know if you are obsessed more than you should be, but
you might be denying it, or thinking it is fine. It is fine to a point
but if the relationship is beginning to harm you, it may be time to
think twice. Or the obsession could be from them, constantly texting
you to see what you are doing.
relationships tend to twist with jealous fits of rage; it goes with the
controlling tendency discussed earlier. This person may
be jealous even when you are out with friends. Remember 'Obsession'?
They are also obsessed with you, but in a negative way. They need to
you and who you are around. There may be endless excuses as to why you
shouldn't go out alone with others, but maybe this is the jealousy
9. You Just Know.
We are smart
beings we humans, and we kind of know when we are in a relationship
that needs a lot of healing. Some people are just 'bad' people and
your former-life lover hasn't evolved yet as you have. Or are you just
as bad, playing games or trying to win over them? We are in these
relationships ultimately to heal ourself and maybe even them.
you learned? Do you like the fight? Some people will always see any
relationship as a game and try to be the 'winner' no matter what. They
will always experience rocky, karmic attachments with others. The rest of us need to move on from them quickly and find
the peaceful relationship we actually crave.
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