Signs Of A Karmic Connection
Sometimes we meet people we've
never spent a lifetime with and our karmic slate is clean. We're free
to create karma, or not, as we please.
But the majority of
times when we begin a new relationship, we have previous karma with
this person from a past lifetime. Often we come together in order to
clear away the karma, in which case we may create similar situations as
the past lifetime in order to re-work through those same issues.
You may have a memory of this when you find yourself thinking, "Haven't
we been here before?" You may not know why but you probably have
been through those same issues
before a thousand years ago. It all feels hauntingly familiar. I've
been through this myself and decided the person wasn't grown
or evolved enough and I decided NOT to do it again until he had matured
spiritually. I walked away and my guides told me we could repeat it in
2,000 years. Because we have a karmic connection doesn't mean we must
suffer through the same issues endlessly. Sometimes the other party has
to grow before you can have a breakthrough.
Soulmate Versus Karmic Connection
Karma occurs when we or someone else hurts us, or we hurt them. It just means there's a price to pay since our
actions must come back to us over time. We must undergo whatever
unpleasant thing we did to others.
However, a karmic connection is different to a soulmate connection.
travel through our lives with one or two soulmates who are very
familiar and dear to us. We choose to do this and, often, the connection
is very safe and happy. However, often our karmic connections are much
more rocky, unstable and unhappy. We may argue often or breakup then
get back together over and over again. We may be attracted to them but
also dislike other aspects of them. A soulmate (either friend or lover)
is in our life to support us, whereas a karmic connection is about
working through karma. After the karma is done, we may not be attracted
to the person anymore.
You may also have a karmic
connection to family members who are born together to heal the
original karmic bond. You may have family members you aren't close
to, and they may be people you were close to or married with a long
ago. Perhaps one of you has been given the chance to fix a mistake or
become close again. You've agreed to come into this family for
this purpose, both of you. Yet often too, this may not work out; you
never feel close enough and lead very separate lives. There's always
the chance they or you could patch it up, but since we
don't remember the past life, we may ignore that opportunity and then
have to try again in the next lifetime.
You could find certain family members to be odd, distant or
uncooperative with you and just lose interest in them. Both of you need to be
open to this chance for it to work out.
10 Signs Your Connection Is Karmic
There are ten signs which allow you to tell if your relationship with
another is karmic, remembering that not all relationships come from
past lives. Soulmates are different and to read about Soulmate
relationship signs, go to 15 Soulmate Signs
1. Instant Strong Disagreement
Your new connection reveals deep or intense feelings straight away, and
whilst you may feel instant love or friendship, within the first week
or two you discover you have strong disagreements with this person. You
will know from the strength of the feelings. These are longstanding
disagreements carried over from the past, which you can either hold
onto or heal.
2. One Of You Needs To Concede
Due to the disagreements, you will find that to make the connection
last, one of you may need to concede to the other's requests in order
to find harmony. This is not ideal or recommended. When we love the
other greatly, we may be tempted to concede, but over time will find
this harder. This relationships needs to be discussed deeply and both
people's wishes need to be met, not just one.
3. Constant Breakups And Makeups
These relationships are marked with prevalent breakups followed by the
need to get back together again. Whilst you are trying to work towards
a point of healing, you WILL leave each other. The relationship is not
easy. When it seems to be over, one or both will later decide to give
it another go. This pattern will continue until you can either heal
your complaints or give it up to find a more harmonic partnership.
Either one of you will tend to be judgmental, or it will be both of
you. Often though one is usually much more judgmental than the other.
You are either passing constant judgment or are being treated harshly
and not accepted by the other, stemming from actions that occurred past
life. They will need to open their mind more and become much more
accepting and forgiving.
5. Sensitivity And Button Pushing
You learn quickly what pushes each of your buttons the most, and both
of you may play this game of ticking off the other, just for fun or to
feel superior. You quickly become heightened to what they are saying
and cannot just laugh it off. This is not a fun game and is often mean
and bullying. Telling them how hurt you are is not an option,
especially if they enjoy or get off on bullying you. At this point you
may have no option but to leave for good.
6. Sex Is Amazing
To counter all of the hostility, the sexual side of this relationship
is amazing and addictive, but for a reason. Your intensity for each
other is designed to keep you together so you CAN work out and heal
your issues. Usually you will have an especially intense and volatile
sex life. There will be plenty of makeup sex as well. You fight, you
cry, you run, then you go back for more. How can you get along when you
fight so intensely but the sex somehow seems worth all of the pain. You
keep waiting for your relationship to suddenly fix itself, and you
rationalise away some of the bad behaviour.
7. Self Control Is Not Easy
You always seem to lose control around this person. You go in with the
best intentions, then they may bully, judge or press your buttons and
you find yourself saying the most hateful comments, which you never
really meant. You simply lose all self ontrol. Remember, they too lose
their control around you, and may not mean half of what they say. You
tend to hurt each other deeply without any means of cooling down your
jets. Know this tendency is rooted in a former life and therefore also
in your current birth chart.
8. Competition Is Rife Between You
One or both of you is competing
with the other which is far from healthy for your romantic tie, or
'sibling tie' as the case may be. Why is it you must always win the
conversation, win the beauty contest, win the salary competition or
whatever it may be? The two of you seem unable to create peace or
harmony together. Someone must always be above the other and the
relationship turns into farce or a game. You are not looking out for
each other anymore and this person does not have your back. They may
even try to control you completely or restrict your freedom, so watch
out for this.
9. Do You Fight About Nothing?
Whether it is little fights or a giant battle that your lives
seem to depend on, together you always need to fight. Perhaps it might
stimulate you or be fun to begin with, and it certainly livens up your
sex life. But before long it begins to spiral out of control until it
reverts into a bitter warfare between you. Now it's almost impossible
to come back to normal from this position. Either sit and talk it our
reasonably, long after all reason is gone, or walk away. You deserve a
more supportive relationship anyway.
10. Either Heal The Rift Or End It.
We come to the part of the tale where inevitably you're sick of
fighting, defending or explaining yourself, sick of their rules, sick
of crying and the intense sex is no longer worth the effort. You can
either heal this thing, become friends, or, simply leave for good. You
are in it to heal it on a spiritual level. But sometimes they just tick
us off too much, or are too inflexible, or too immature and it will not
be healed no matter what. This is sad as you really do love each other
despite this ridiculous dynamic you've set up.
Hopefully your relationship never gets this far that it has to end
suddenly unresolved. Don't worry, you can heal it again in a next
lifetime, or even later on in this life, after a long break.
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